Tuesday, 18 August 2015

18th August 2015

Golden days.
 
Yesterday was glorious.  Actually glorious in the clear-blue-not-a-cloud-in-sight, hot-but-not-too-hot, breathe-it-deep-into-your-memory-lungs-air-sunshine, if-heaven's-better-than-this-wow, type of day.  We really enjoyed the afternoon especially as we met up with some friends down at the community croft ('play garden' according to Felicity.)  What with changing work commitments, being out of town for several weeks and in my case, having a baby after a hard pregnancy, our community patch (a 12'x15' piece of earth) was looking very very sorry for itself.  The other crofters actually cleared our potatoes which had fallen over due to blight, poor blighters (the potatoes, I mean, not the other gardeners!)

So, I have a new project and that is to determine what plants can be started here in late August/September and give us some kind of return over the winter, and arrange them in a pleasing aesthetic way on our little patch (because I'm competitive that way!  heh!)

If it were earlier in the year, I'd copycat some of the demonstration gardens we see in the Botanics, which are always lovely.  As it is, I'm going to sift through my seed packets here at home and see what we can use.  Alarmingly, I'm considered a bit of an 'expert' in gardening by my friends, though my own style has just been trial and error (and a lot more errors, imo!)  Though I'm surprised when people don't know to knock the soil off of weeds before tossing them, or not splashing the leaves of plants in full sunshine to burn them, and other 'common sense' things like that.  I'm sure there are many many 'common sense' things we've lost as our culture has moved away from that agrarian model into urban cities.  I re-read the Little House books last year and was amazed at how many things they knew how to do (from building their own houses, to kitchen gardening, to making shoes and cloth and clothes, to processing a whole hog!)  I would die in the wilderness.  Maybe that's why I like to garden - it feeds the illusion of self-sufficiency, while I have the protection of the local grocery store around the corner.

Felicity is back at nursery Monday and Tuesday mornings and she enjoyed it yesterday, though she came away from it *starving* and an absolute bear until she had had something to eat.  Wee soul, something is definately going on in that little body - she has such strong emotional swings!  Yesterday, she was actually *screaming* for me to come and get her at the bottom of the porch (while I was juggling crying baby and trying to get lunch on the table before we all killed each other, LOL!!) and when I was able to put enough things down to get down on her level and *deal* with the behavior, she melted into sobs - 'CUDDLES?!?' she begged.  So, I figured rocking her and feeding her was probably more effective than making her sit in time-out.  She didn't have a nap and last night she was so tired, I went into her room about 2:30am after feeding Mr, Mouth and nearly burst out laughing.  She was laying sprawled out on her bedroom rug, as if she had fallen out of bed and hadn't even noticed.  I debated about leaving her there, since she was obviously not-uncomfortable-enough-to-wake-up, but even when I picked her up and put her back into bed, she didn't even stir.

Then yesterday evening our good friends the Kirkwoods came over for dinner and it was great to see them, though the baby had his crazy hour during dinner.  The girls love eachother and hd a great time playing together.  G had brought S's pajamas, so we gave the girls a bath together in the big tub upstairs before dressing them for bed.  They had so much fun in the deep bubbles Simon made for them.  Reminded me of Jean and me when we were little, as I don't think I had a bath alone until I was a teenager!

Anyway, must run and do some housework while the baby sleeps (I hear him ooching in the hall.)

My favorite picture of him lately

Smiles!

Cooing at Daddy

Part of the Community Croft (not our patch, obviously!  lol)
    

Saturday, 15 August 2015

15 August 2015

Woah. Crazy evening. Still shell-shocked with the ringing of screaming kids even though everything is quiet now that the little angels are asleep.  Simon and I came downstairs to start the next load of laundry, put away groceries and make a cup of tea.  When Simon asked me what kind of tea I'd like, I turned to him and said wide-eyed and a little frantically: 'We survived another day with two kids. And the kids are still alive too.'  One day I'm sure this season of our life will seem cushy - this is just training us for the next big challenge, whatever that will be.  Weird how you go through life each new difficulty seems like the 'boss-level.'  How did I ever think highschool or college or married without kids life was hard?

My appointment with the chiropractor this morning was nothing short of amazing.  The lady was a 'teacher' in the Madalene L'Engle sense of the word.  After talking with me and examining me for 15ish minutes, she 'adjusted' my back for like 2 minutes.  When I sat up, there was an eerie lack of pain.  I stood up and I don't know what happened, but I actually started crying because it felt good to be standing.  The only other place I have experienced the same overwhelming sense of wellness that I cannot describe has been in one or two golden, perspective-changing singing lessons.  I am going to go back for some follow-up treatment in the next couple of weeks - she said it was quite good I came before all the pregnancy hormones go away as I'm loose-r and it'll be easier to train things back into place.  After my appointment, the back and shoulder pain that's been radiating through my right side was completely gone.  I feel hopeful about my poor mortal coil for the first time in a long time.

Anyway, it's late.  I'm knackered (we also did costco and a 2 hour walk this afternoon...it wasn't meant to be 2 hours but F kept poking mud puddles and picking daisies and other such dawdlings.)  Beautiful weather.  Worth it to be outside.  Unforunately, hardly any housework got done today (hey-ho, always tomorrow, right?)

Right.  Till tomorrow.

Thursday, 13 August 2015

13 August 2015

Okay, I survived another night and it's halfway through the day.  Both kids sleeping and I have a caffiene-withdrawal headache not letting me rest.  But tally-ho!  Better for you, as I've got pictures to post.

Kellie castle from Saturday.  These are just the ones I got from my phone.  Simon took some great snaps of T, but they're on the other computer (the one I don't know his password for!)

Oh, for a walled garden.

Gravel! The ultimate plaything!

So beautiful.

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Pear trees trained against the wall and the kitchen garden in front.

Eugene: 'I could get used to a view like this. Okay. I'm used to it.  Guys, I want a castle.'


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Ok, baby waking up. More later.

Wednesday, 12 August 2015

12 August 2015

What day is it again?  Wednesday.  Right. OK.  Here goes...

Thank God the baby is sleeping right now.  Felicity is watching her 3rd round of Max and Ruby.  I've had Train and now Neil Diamond playing while I try to keep sane and just-clean-the-freakin-kitchen.  Things are good generally.  Really good.  Titus is eating every 2 hours day and night and he's visibly growing.  And if he grows, he'll learn to sleep longer, right?  I have a chiropractic appointment set for Saturday for some of this lingering back pain.

Our boiler has a fault that we discovered on Monday night, so we've been without hot water since then, but the engineer is coming today before 5pm to fix it.  SO, while I'm stuck in the house anyway my mission is to do some much needed cleaning.  And look forward to a hot shower tonight. Yes.  A much needed hot shower.

Simon had a meeting for church last night that started at 7:30pm.  Yeah.  So I got to do bedtime by myself.  It wasn't too bad.  We were all asleep by 9:20pm.  And not even piled together in the same bed out of exhaustion.  Everyone in their own beds by 9:20pm. Including me.  That's got to be a record.

I found Pride and Prejudice on netflix again last night.  I'm treating myself to watching it (despite Felicity's whining - 'I like the dog and NOTHING ELSE about this movie!!') while nursing the baby.  Trying to keep a cup of tea next to me on the sofa while I watch.  Ultimate Jewel is another nursing-time-distract-myself treat.

I need to post pictures and make a happy blog post about last saturday because we had an AWESOME day driving up to Fife and visiting Kellie Castle.  It was a beautiful day and we got some really good pictures of the kids and the gorgeous garden.  We were knackered afterwards but it was so worth it - almost like a summer vacation rolled into an afternoon.

But I don't have time right now.  But I'll get to it!  Back to real life!

Sunday, 9 August 2015

9 August 2015

OKAY - the pictures on the last blog were so not lining up the way I wanted them to.  Onward and forward!

Thank goodness, the last 3-4 days, F has been sleeping so much better than usual.  She's going to bed generally between 8-9pm and not waking up until 5-6am.  If it's closer to 5am, I've been able to go settle her pretty quickly, and if it's closer to 6am, I've usually been feeding T anyway, so she's come to cuddle with us.  I was talking to Jean about Felicity's wakefulness - I assume it's a combination of an over-active imagination and clinginess.  Jean gave me a really useful analogy.  Ford verses a Ferrari.  Some people are built more sensitively - and it doesn't take much for them to be driven (or drive themselves) around emotional bends.  And they need more time to learn to drive.  But no one who's emotionally built like a Ferrari is ever going to wish they're a Ford.  I really hope this will be the case with Felicity - that all this time and affection and affirmation that we are giving her when she needs it (even at the expense of uninterrupted sleep) will make her more empathetic and able to give that support to other people too.  I pray that Ferrari sensitivity turns outward-looking with a servant heart, rather than inward-looking with selfishness (ie., drama queen.)

Delphiniums, coreopsis, verbena, lavender, and geraniums

The jungle is being tamed.

The coreopsis had two plants growing in the same pot, so I divided the rootball and had a free plant!  The geraniums were on clearance, but looked like they stll had plenty of life in them,

My backyard looking towards the house.
So the garden progresses.  I've spent some time this weekend teasing out the strawberry plants that have been colonizing the brick pavers.  I'm setting them out with some weed suppressant material.  I'm hoping that my neighbor will let me set some in her side yard, as it would prevent the rosebay willow herb weeds coming back next year.

We have been enjoying being outside when we can and I introduced Titus to the backyard neighbors on Friday.  A neighbor's beagle puppy escaped her yard and came around to visit our yard (while the baby sat in his carseat - yipes) but we managed to catch her no problem and it was a good chance to meet some other of our neighbors I hadn't spoken to much.  Turns out they have a 4-5 yo and a 5 month old baby too.

Something remarkable from Thursday -



Asleep in the middle of the day, at the same time!  I had just enough time to snap this picture and make a cup of tea before F woke up.  Oh well.  It's a start!

Baby getting oochie again.  Ta ta.

7th August

So I started this blog post two  four days ago (!) and hopefully I'll finally finish it today.
Sweet snuggly selfie

Titus
 I think my children look almost freakishly alike.  For example:
Titus 
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Tuesday, 4 August 2015

4th August 2015

How my garden grows...

Titus is 4 weeks old today.

Although I'm not as fit or strong as I was this time a year ago, I feel like I've had somewhat of a miracle recovery.  I'm climbing stairs, carrying laundry baskets, sitting on the floor, picking up carseats and buggies, driving, walking....etc etc.  I've so been enjoying being able to work in the garden again -amazing.

Some people have been surprised we've been as active as we have, but it's honestly not me trying to be super woman.  I've been sleeping so badly and been in so much pain for the last 3-4 months, in some respects, I'm just finding it easier to cope with life in general (albeit, with a newborn) feeling a bit more myself!  And the days are really packed.



Simon watched Titus for me over the weekend so I could really make some progress on the side yard.


I should have taken before pictures as well..


Really clearing out the weeds

This is the section I haven't gotten to yet...


From upstairs


And here's my other gardening project....



3 1/2 weeks old...


3 1/2 years old...