Sunday, 12 April 2015

12 April 2015

And so life continues!

March 2015 we did our 3rd kitchen remodel in 4 years (Delta Road Christmas 2011/12, Hopetoun Street Spring 2013, Ryehill March 2015.)  We ought to be getting good at this by now....

This is the before -

Notice the missing handles, gap-y cabinets,  naff curtains and faded lino

This is the delivery we got from IKEA in our 'study'

They stripped out the old kitchen (decorators had painted the ceiling and prepped the walls already

Very interesting to see the very very old wallpaper (brown) probably from the early 1910s, and then the 1960-ish patterns on top (gray swirly pattern.)  

It always gets worse before it gets better!

It's a good thing the builders told me they were also going to haul all the
rubbish away as well!  When I saw the backyard through the window,
I nearly had heart failure!

The new cabinets the next day

And the countertops were also fitted!

Progress is made

And the new fridge before installation

Cabinet doors on, appliances fitted, sink installed!



Simon fitting the new lighting.

Laundry room before painting.  (After
we completely emptied it after a full day's work.
I think this was taken near midnight!)

New paint going on the walls

The painting process....

Beautiful new lights hanging in the kitchen!





\\\Before tiling and new flooring



New color on the walls.  I was at work the morning they began painting this (talk about a leap of faith, eh?)  When I got home (after thinking about it almost all day) and saw it for the first time, I was literally fist-pumping the air saying 'Yes!'  Such a good color match for the wood around the fireplace.

Fast forward to the new color in the laundry room, the new floors down, the tiling installed and the appliances going back into their rightful places!

With swish custom lighting!

Still planning to make a pelmet curtain for over the top of the mini-blinds and matching seat-covers for the folding chairs.  But...these are details that will keep!

Ta-da!

Monday, 9 February 2015

9 February 2015

And...it's February....

So I've gotten a bit behind on blogging to say the least! But I have a good reason - in late October last year we found out we're expecting a baby!  I've been in a haze until about 4 weeks ago. The most I can claim is that I've been getting to work, taking care of kiddo and getting as much sleep as I can.

Some pictures!
Little rapper...

Felicity s favorite dress and a rare headband moment. She was only standing still to eat the jello.... (or 'jelly' as they call it over here.)

Next house update!  before and afters of the fridge. Yes, I have been packing a week of groceries into the tiny box on the right!  The tall one will be integrated into the new kitchen when it comes.  Have a been loving having a "regular-sized" fridge?? Oh yeah!

Hopefully won't be another 4 months before I post again!

Monday, 20 October 2014

20 October 2014 - part 2

In the States, 'midterm' has connotations of terror and tests and far far far more stress, and everyone breaths a sigh of relief when it's over so they can go back to the normal craziness of a regular schedule.

Over here, they have it so cushy!  Instead of a week of tests in a row, teachers and kids get a week off during the 'midterm holiday' - airfare to exotic destinations triples in price, students (and teachers) catch up on sleep and real-life activities and everyone moans around the 20th October because we go back to the normal craziness of a regular schedule.

I've always loved October.

First, I loved it because I loved having my birthday at the beginning of the month - October meant presents!

Then, I distinctly remember going to the State Fair when I was about 6 years old.  It was thrilling as it was the first time I could wear jeans and a jacket *for real* because the hot weather finally broke.  October meant blessed relief.  Summer heat does not last forever.

Now, I look forward to October because the weather here is so weird!  It gets rainy and cloudy and gloomy here more often than not in May, June, July, August and the first part of September, aside from a few days of sunshine.  Then, we tend to get a wonderful Indian summer where we get at least 2, if not 3 weeks of beautiful blue skies.  The architectural lines of the city are decorated with avenues of fireworks as the leaves change dramatically.  The skies soar and you even get the lighter shimmery blue near the horizon that only happens on a really bright day.  On the west side of Edinburgh, you get the smell of the hops in the late afternoon near the brewery.  On the east side, if you're close to the shore, you may get a tang of the sea.  October air is alchemy of sunshine, decaying leaves, swirl of freshness and a smudge of an early chimney-fire.  Last week it rained all day Thursday, but after a week of sun, I didn't even mind - we huddled down with our tea together and set our fireplace to work.  I inhaled and pretended it was Christmas -very very cosy.

It will be getting even darker soon.  The clocks change this Sunday, I think.  Once you accept that the darkness will happen, it's easier to persevere!  Just make sure to set the alarm clock in the morning as the dark mornings have a way of lulling you into sleeping too long.

 I have also planted white cyclamen in the front yard - I am cheered by the effect.
It's a blurry picture, but I like the silvers and whites in my front garden.  Looks sophisticated to me as the silver is found in the purple sage, the curry plant, the lavenders and the cyclamen leaves.  I planted bacopa at the end of the summer (on clearance - woot!) and it is still spreading itself out happily,  If I lift the bulbs and keep them dry when they die in the spring/summer, the white cyclamen will come back next year.  Most people just use them as an annual though I think as they are ubiquitous at garden shops this time of year.
Last Wednesday, I totally scivved (played hooky) all day.  F went over to play at S's house and while I probably should have cracked on painting and varnishing upstairs, it was such a lovely day, I just took myself out and did only what I felt like doing!  well, after a few essential chores like taking F's prescriptions to the pharmacy.


On the Mound looking down to West End of Princes Street.


Mom's apartments in front of the castle.

After meeting Simon for lunch in Meadows (remembering our pre-parenting, pre-job dates) and popping in and out of charity shops (got a whole new autumn wardrobe refresh for about £25!), I walked back to Leith via the Scottish National Gallery.

Not allowed to take pictures in the gallery, but I visited the Impressionist rooms and saw the Trees by Cezanne and the Olive Trees by Van Goth.  I saw 4 people looking at their smart phones, including the room monitors, and I inwardly laughed at a group of seemingly highschool students who were arguing in ridiculously posh English accents about the quality of one artist or other.


This is what I saw when I left the gallery.


 This is a photo of St. Andrews' Square.






































So after playing all Wednesday in such nice weather, Thursday was a return to a more normal existence.  But I got this pretty picture of the front of our house with the completed dormers on the roof!



G had had to take the day off work, so we met up and took F and S over to Gorgie Farm in the morning.  They had a brilliant time and were sooo tired out by the excitement.


F was picking out one pellet of food at a time and carefully offering it to the animals while S was grabbing loads of food and letting the goats gobble it up all at once.


Little girl by the gates.  She's lovely.






Ride 'em cowgirl!



Because it was so cute.

And then we saw Dr. Who!


'Nak naks' as S calls them - snack, snacks.

And then we opened a box and found a tea tray!  (she wanted to wear her tutu that night too.)



Finally, a house update - tada!  We've been working really hard on the painting and we are really pleased with the way it is shaping up!




Felicity's room is pink, but a grown up enough pink for her to grow into.


Bathroom painted.  Not yet fully put together,

So much light on a sunny morning!

Hallway, no paint yet.

Another bonus October scene from the B&Q parking lot!  Such lovely colors.
Okay folks - that's a massive post.  Time for me to go to bed.

20 October 2014

I have been dreading today a little as I had to go to an inservice and they are never very fun after a week off of work.  However, as inservices go, it was not too bad.  We were learning about how to support mental and emotional health of our students which included a lot of research about early childhood development, brain function and how to communicate with someone struggling mentally/emotionally.  

I found the early childhood development part more interesting as a parent - the emphasis was on reinforcing 'resilience' in children - the ability to bounce back from adversity as shielding forever from adversity is impossible. And indicators of how to tell if particularly children have either a healthy mental/emotional state or difficulties.  

The thing I took away from the brain part was the fact that teenagers' brains are provenly different from young peoples' and adults.  They're more 'adventurous' 'risktaking' (ie., rash, reckless), more dependent on social interactions, less aware of consequences, more forgetful, more tired, for a reason.  A huge mental shift happens in teenagers where brain synapses are quite literally pruned away while pathways used more often are strengthened.  They showed a baby's brain map, the map of a 6-7 year old and the map of a 15 year old.  The baby's was blank except for a few synaptic lines, the 6-7yo was so spidery-webby you could hardly see the white background for all the black brain synapses and the 15yo had stronger lines, but remarkably less of them.

A person's brain isn't fully developed until they reach 22-25 years of age as well - good to keep in mind when dealing with the youngun's!

Communicating with someone struggling with mental and emotional stress - they suggested 5 guidelines.  If you notice an indicator of stress, just observe 'I've noticed that.....' they may not want to talk about it, but it gives them permission to bring it up with you later and it shows that you care. Next, listen without giving your own opinion or trying to fix them.  Sometimes, people don't need advice, they just need to be acknowledged and heard.  Next, ask them 'What is one thing that would make your situation better?'  It's important to ask this rather than 'How can I help?' because this question empowers the person, rather than implies they need to be fixed.  Finally, summarize just what you have heard them say and thank them for sharing their thoughts with you.  In a school situation, depending on the information learned, there is the added follow-up of if the situation needs to be referred to another person in the school for the childs' safety.

The afternoon session was about collaborative learning - how to engage all children in a group - tactics to get them to self-teach and peer-teach.  There's an opportunity for one or two people from the service to attend a 2 day conference in Stirling about collaborative learning.  I asked for details after the session as I think those general teaching strategies are amazing.  I hope they choose me to go in a way, as I could see the knowledge and experience to be really useful when giving presentations, managing any groups of people - even teaching Sunday School!

But enough of a summary of today's thinking - pictures of last week on holiday in the next post!